It has been a long time ,whenever you are concerned or tensed about any issues the first foremost matter is talk to a person who is concerned in the sense who knows you well ,gives you time understand your pros and cons . Withal ,keeps the bond in a consistent way well this is an accepted way of communication where there is no inhibition to interact certainly in between such meaningful talks ,a person who is not aware of the personal riots you are facing interrupts ( the third person or a loud mouth ) ,suddenly frames an intervention with a half talk or the last surprising expression kempt before the third person arrives .The two person communication is a space which could be exclusively personal as well as a perfectly coordinated zone defining the values the individual feels about the listener the annoyance when a third person intrudes in a nutshell with a not so remarkable conclusion may completely destroy the image which doesn't even you own .After the word Psychology ,we find a group of Gyaan who have read more than one book of psychology starts impersonating themselves as a solution of all problems .It's okay to give tips ,suggestions ,advices and helping people but in a one to one conversation unless the person does'nt seeks guidance personally be wise enough to comprehend .
Few months ago ,a friend of mine called me and explained an instance ,It has been almost two years he and few of his friends have started investing time for psc, bank coaching parallely they attend exams .Even after lots of hard work he couldn't make it .As usual after undertaking an important exam few of his colleagues and himself were busy discussing the answers as an outcome immediately found that he was almost near but lost ,in extreme disppointment they were heading back to home suddenly a voice calls them .After A Dramatic turn there they see a young gentle man well dressed heading towards the sad "annoyed" faces .He addressed himself( the young man) as a motivational speaker ,without any provocation started motivating for almost good 1 hr ,exactly after 60 minutes instantly the disppointment turned down an extreme hatred as a consequence the poor motivational speaker consumed plenty of water .
You may be living inspiration or good vibe who really want people around you to be smart ,active ,good and best as you .Now you can initiate new concepts to the needy but not those who doesn't want it .Not everybody around you need a the same speech you delivered few days before to a thief .In a society you live there are different people who speaks differently ,act uniquely ,preach another religion .So take a minute and say " All Is Well " .The same affirmation Alternately can also be a an extremely unsatisfactory statement .
