Falling in love and self-love is the same

Well! There is no secret if, you are truly ready to accept my life patterns, I respect people and consider them genuinely , my idea of love is definitely not a person , Like every other feeling it's emphasized more sometimes as in for movies mostly the feeling is considered between a man and woman or the one which initiates attraction to lust. 
For me love is like any other feeling namely happiness, sadness etc. 

Then! Don't you feel the same intensity in things you enjoy and put your heart and soul from being better to best, does it feels the same? when you get achievements, spending time with family, friends, having your favorite food, listening to all time feel good tracks, while watching movies, visiting serene places, praying silently , this shallow deeds designs everybody to love and know you do this because you love doing it, so the meaning of love is definitely not getting involved and engaged with a person ,nobody acknowledges this as love, because love is viewed with prejudices like kneeling down with rings and roses, caring and holding hands you still isn't aware, it is just a notion, your bunch of expectations from the concerned. Love is synonymous,but not anonymous. 
So if you say falling in love is falling for a person is perfection! Then accept that it's a human-being with phases, moods wings, lows - ups & with another perspective. 
I do agree there is love in between living. Isn't it naive? to belittle love as a person. (forgive me if 'LOVE' is nick name of somebody with a body. 
With Regards 
A strong believer of love/Admirer's Pen(https://web.stagram.com/annaaneetaclement)