Arranged Marriages Nowadays -Trying To find Out An Opmistic Logic

Arranged Marriages Nowadays ...
Two Strangers were asked to make a family after their first meeting at a family function ,since then both of them started to make each other an obession ,LOve happened so fast like it was all visible through #hash# Tags# fb falling  in love wala wall post #insta pics  all you could see  the red colour and heart shapes were perfectly glowing around  ,When a friend of her asked what is that factoryou liked in  him ? Her answer was "My MoM Liked him and Ya! he has got MBA with some other degree",when asked to The Guy about the spark he found in her ,"He said she never used dating sites and " I felt amazing that ,I was the person who gave  an idea about major social networking sites &  hints about porn ..She is  so innocent that she doesn't even knows who Sunny Leone is !
Some#lovestories  cooks faster than Maggie Noodles#

Goodbye -"Never Means The End"

Goodbye
Who starts a hello to say a goodbye?
Who ends a conversation with a goodbye to bid ways?
Who waves Goodbye to never meet again?
Who have stopped time by Goodbye?
Who never have thought a million times before saying the word Good Bye?
Who have never found,”  Goodbye” as the most cynical word?
If Good Bye was never told or read how the conversation ends!
After every goodbye something starts happening, something ends forever and something remain forever.
Let the good happen by Goodbye, let the faith strengthen with goodbye, and the hopes rejuvenate .

The Ghost Of Love

THE GHOST OF LOVE

BINGO! IT’S A SINGLE OUT THERE

PING ME ON! IS THE SECOND WORD OF ATTRACTION, LATER ON THE  IN  THE WORLD  OF PASSIVITY, ADVENTURES ARE FOUND UNLOCKING ONE BY ONE , 

ATTRACTION CHASES THE LEVELS OF TEMPTATION AND CURIOSITY.

SLOWLY, SLOWLY SOMETHING STARTS FADING, THE ANONYMITY.

ATTRACTION

BECOMES A MANIFESTATION

“ONE STEP, CLOSER!

DISTANCE WAS NEVER A MATTER,

A VISUAL EXPERIENCE WAS TOTALLY ABSURD.

THE SPACE, STARS, MARS, SPACE SHIPS SPIRITUALITY THE TOTAL INSANITY AND INCREDIBLE WAYS OF EXPRESSING ONESELF.

THERE WAS NOTHING RELATED TO THE BLOOD AND BODY.

IT WAS ONLY IMAGINATION, A REVEALING UNCONSCIOUS PATHWAY TO THE CONSCIOUSNESS.....!!

JUST LIKE ALL THOSE STARS WHICH HOLDED THE MYSTERY OF UNIVERSE.

 “THE SERENDIPITY “

THAT WAS HOW LOVE STARTED HAPPENING.

THEN THE REALITY COMES AS A VILLAIN

THE UNKNOWN FACTS STARTS TO COME LIKE A SUSPENSE THRILLER

IGNORANCE AND SILENCE BUILD BRICKS

 EVER HAPPY SOULS SELLS DREAMS IN MARKETS AND MINDS.

 THOSE COMPULSIVE MEMORIES SOMETIME FETCHES THE INBOX.

BIT BY BIT THE STRANGE STORY OF ATTRACTION BECOMES THE HARDEST THING TO FORGET.

UNEXPECTEDLY FALLING IN A BLACK HOLE WITH A BLIND FOLD,

 WITH A REALIZATION THAT AS FOLD IS OPENED THERE IS NO ONE TO HOLD

BUT STILL TO FOLD YOU BLIND,

YES THAT IS WHY THEY SAY SO, MAY BE “LOVE IS BLIND “.

NOW THE LOVE IS LIKE A GHOST WHICH COMES UNEXPECTEDLY AND YET WITH A REASON.

 A REASON WHICH IS BEYOND UNDERSTANDING 

Chembra Peaks "Exploring God's Own Country"

Every traveller has a soul which is curious and passionate.Every journey is an experience  ,An experience which  is evolved only through an impulsive turn,Inside every traveller there is a compassionate hunter of eternal beauty and versatility .           
Only through the exploration of self and nature ,could make us harmonious being .
If you feels it's time for a little adventure through exploration ....Then Save A Date -Hike To Chembra"
Chembra Peaks the highest Peak of Wayanad ,District of Kerala with an elevation of 2,100m belongs to the mountain range Western Ghats,which adjoins with Nilgiri hills and Vellarimala Kozhikode .it is located 8km away from Kalpetta town.
As soon as you enter the District you could see her beauty reflecting from every nook and corner which is a pleasurable scene to watch . 
To enter the  peaks special permission should be taken from the authorities  and trekking is not allowed after 6pm till 6am, due to safety reasons.
The journey starts from the foot of the hills and every step will give you a mount of rush and push to reach the very top .The peaks are bounded by river which looks like the mirror of the valley .The adventurous trekking to top of the hill and never dried up Heart shaped Lake will have gust of wind to sooth your mind and a little of dust to hassle! .Never mind ,there is a refreshing tap which will provide you water reviving  your eagerness and passion .Crossing the two dense forest gives a chance to the daring you ,Every step towards the hill top will make you feel the frisky clouds calling you for a wonder struck moment.Once you reach up there "You could the see the mysterious heart shaped  lake ,the nature's own  creation and down you could get an alluring view of Nilambur Forest which will definitely give  you goosebumps, By the end of  your journey, Chembra Peaks and it's trekking will give you an explicit memory of advent .Never ever forget to take a snap which is soothing and moving as my Friend Sreelakshmi did it for me ....Thank You Sreelakshmi For These  beautiful pictures Which made feel ,experience the Chembra Peaks  virtually Can't just stop praising the true photographer in you who through artistic skills in Framing ,have provoked me  to write about a missed and must go Place .So guys let's take our holidays to another level of Elation ..By exploring God's own country and Chembra in detail and deep .  
Happy Journey ......Fellas 

The Heart Shaped Lake

The Touch

The Touch

The whole crowd was strange to her, she was feeling wired and lonely  ,not even a single face was there who cared, and no one knew her past .She was totally humiliated .All eyes penetrated her soul .The fear started peeling her, she started hearing the fear it started slowly tearing her mind into pieces she was all blank, her body started trembling.

The first trip of newlywed couples Mr and Mrs Khalid to Morocco started with surprises.  Morocco was the first place which Naina (Mrs Khalid) travelled without her parents.  Khalid was all set to make everything special for Naina whole heartedly, he held her hands in the crowd to so that she could feel safe and secured he bought all those things which could possibly make her happy she remained silent and thoughtful all the time, it took her from minutes to hours to speak to Khalid , and Khalid who  was aware about her reasons and loved her for being so .They had few good moments together watching  in and out of Morocco .Everything was beautiful. It was 7pm .They took a cab to the station in order to catch the train which was scheduled for departure at 8:00 pm.  .By 7:15 they reached the station platform

Khalid: Naina would you like to have something.

Naina: It’s okay Ji we just had our meals.

Khalid: It’s  has been almost one hour .You look so dehydrated .Let me bring some snacks and cool drinks .And see don’t call me Ji and miya you can find your own nick names to call me .

Naina: Ji.

Khalid laughs and says it’s Okay ‘Ji’. (Taunts) .So ’Ji’ you take care I will be back within few minutes.

Naina: Looks confused and puzzled.

Naina waited for Khalid making herself comfortable within few seconds she was dragged down into her deepest world, her eyes were drooping making her eyes  opened to  another world of assumptions  ,where all her curiosity and expectations were monitored and flashed ,as the mind whirled and pupils moved rapidly she heard few gun shots, some goons  surrounded  & nabbed her purse and ran into the crowd .And then the deepest and deepest of her fear starts hovering than hearing her present .Her mouth was all dry ,she felt that  her tongue got digested  .Her body started fuming ,the heart beats faster and faster. soon someone from the crowd hugged her and said ,”Are you alright ,Naina are you alright , Naina can you hear me ...”

“Naina... are you okay? “ As she heard a familiar soft voice, she came back to her senses.

It was Khalid right in front of her holding her hands with his serious face of concern & unfazed.

Naina: I lost my purse, i couldn’t find any help.

Khalid: Relax, Relax. Held her close, tapped gently on her shoulders and said gently I have your purse Madam Ji.

Naina: But I, I (anxious and confused)

Khalid: I am there with you, And I Am never Gonna leave you.

He held her passionately, caressed her cheeks. She hugged him back realizing her deepest fear, His touch made her recognize her deepest fear was ephemeral and his love as enduring.

"Touch As You Mean, Feel, Care and Know."  :)

Pic Courtesy : Google
And special thanks to Miss Priyanka And Sanjana :)

A beautiful story

Little lilly was walking down her street.She was screaming and crawling..She was smiling and waving all the way and stopped everyone she saw and Said Mr Kingsley..See Who is Gonna Come to see Little LiLLy today with a lily flower "my father ' "my father '.The whole street and people had a smile, they all were swaying to the little moves and giggles of little lilly.Mrs Smith and her son decorated the road with flowers and garnets.Mary and laura was practicing the song to welcome Smith and his colleagues who fought for their country last seven years.Granny Jane was eagerly waiting near the doorstep for her grandson Jake, she remembered all his pedals from the day  he turned 1 to 18..The years have passed from the child who feared darkness to a solider who have fought against odds and darkness.The lanterns finally lighted, the candles of hopes and prayers were fuming around.Some  of them were dancing to the drums & trumpets.The crackers finally cracked with colors of happiness.The dream of freedom  finally  knocked the doors to the land where the ceasefire was broken every day  and night .they who feared death finally found a meaning to their fearful life.Jacintha lost her left leg when militants took their guns last time.Peter lost his family few months ago. little lily lost her elder sister lisa.kingsley while rescuing the school children lost his hands.Miss Annie still  doesn't speak once she saw her mother brutally being killed.Trivia and Tom lost their home and relatives.little Fin got his body burn.Since all that day they had a prayer, they all became one despite being to different families  and religion they all found a commonness and prayed for peace, worked for peace their souls passed the goodwill of peace and promised themselves to stop violence, the soldiers finally surrendered to the wills of people waving white flags each other  and proclaimed to be one, they declared  "we are One "gave shake hands, roses and hugs each other  let us be One " and make this world one...ever since the proclamation they lived happily as one family...The war finally ended with smiles and cries, worries and pain...still with a proud moment of being one.

Happy international Peace day

Peace

Peace is all what we seek everywhere

We need peace

People work for peace

Peace is all what all the religion preaches

You need a home, a shelter a nest to sleep peacefully

You need a good job to live peacefully during old age

You need good people around you, good friends and a soul mate to live peacefully and harmoniously.

In fact peace is   that little big thing what we all thrive for, live for

Peace is our basic need

Rest all becomes secondary

Staying peaceful living peacefully is a dream with creamy layer of hopes and desires

Let us live for peace, pray for peace and shade the world with peace and love

Let us all be one for peace, let us trust and unite for peace and make this world a better space  for you  me and  the entire human race . 

 Let us work for a world without discrimination ,racism ,war ,poverty and illness ..

.let us care ,nurture and grow holding love for being one .

let the dove fly with happiness with olive leaves in its  beak spreading the word of peace ...igniting our hearts and minds .

Happy International Peace day for all peace lovers and supporters .

The Niagara Falls ...........A mystical Cum Magical Beauty ...

The Niagara Falls 

It was  very usual morning , till I met her  "The Niagara" via my best friend  

he send me some of her latest pictures a few  video bits  featuring her beauty and very eco friendly gestures .I was and still wonderstruck ,of her gracious caliber to flaunt people and

her special wildness .Her compassionate moves to the unknown , her bewilderment to nature, those white and greyish lines, those deep green wavy water  made her my heart throbe .

Were you singing a melancholy

Was it your cry ? for your love to mist.

Or else were you trying to get over past hiding it with your laughter 

I may be naive to make it out .

May be, I may sound lame .

But I shall, say you this 

You have made me feel alive with that one sight ...

You have been hoisting the traveller and my deep  love  to nature and it's fantasies since the very morning I have seen you .

I am freezed and locked with your flawless seduction , even if you could be a mortal danger to me .

Your unpredictable moves 

Your highly replicating vibes , waves and winds ..

Your dramatic mood changes ....!!.

your unknown motives 

Makes you a divergent ...

Where are you rushing towards ..?

How deep you are ..?

You are mysterious 

You are a miracle 

Indeed a spellbinding beauty ...

The enthral to the land .

Oh ! you beautiful it's to your divine eccentricity which makes me surrender ,As before and after you there  are no other choices left .....

Can't stop admiring and alluring your beauty which is a heart breaker ...and a silver lining ....!!!

Pic Courtesy : PK And FRiends .

Internet - An Unknown Freedom

Internet - "An Unknown Freedom " 

By mid 90's the  concept , the thought and action of world wide web came into existence making Bill gates billionaire .The world changes wireless phone , electronic mail and a lot many things .

The video games and joy sticks had made a two in one process of less sweat and children safe at home concepts .The person to the next door started to become strangers and few more things started to change .The fact of reality turned to be the world - achievements, competition and computers 

Dictionaries and books were replaced by reality shows , virtual SMS .Television the fools box from black white to wide Led screens .The loyalty of relationships were based on the no of SMS and phone calls .From speaking to face to face, the verbal phrases and adjectives played a major role in making a perfect conversation the importance of a person with face was turning down in fact an illusion was created and preceded. The rise of new software application from SMS packs ,  free calls , free messages all via Internet controlled affairs and bonds .That is how complimentary relationship rises and compatible relationships faded .

 Self Disclosure 
Few years back if it were  younger siblings , school friends  and friends at premises were the people we choose   to disclose our simple to complex experiences and so on .. as days passed the messengers doves were replaced by messengers and blue tick marks .The open Windows and opened doors soon turned to be writers imagination  . Acceptance among equals turned like an  impossible and ignorance came to light ..We are humans ..who always need a little space for love , care and freedom when the real life had lots of closed doors and windows . Busy schedules, money, achievements ,education ,white collar jobs somewhere our happiness of little space was limited with walls and fences ..  Someone knew it is kinda time to break the chain which was spreading and ordinary way of communication has started vanishing something speedy and creative has   to be started young minds  started to  explore the virtual window and it's higher aspects just as information and technology got a hand in market , the exploratory sites regarding the growth and mutual understanding concerned with human interactions and relations briefed the process of Keep in touch with the google's emergence with orkut Mark 's Facebook the chat window system flourishes ,the net and availability paves way to new chances in networking and more than that .  Facebook for wireless phones to keypad to one touch anthem of phones the chatting is now and then considered as an art Wireless communication and the system has already been so common that everything is tied in to it .contacts ,apps ,memos what else it cannot do ...? ? They have already won a space of our commonness and routines It's been a  device which is utilized and exploited for many reasons and without any reasons ...!! It has already tamed as one of our integral need .Until a lighter  and easy version comes this will be part of our life .

To Express

Everyone out there who is emotionally fit or not all needed or deeply wanted to express  and off course they  have the right to express what they feel like you and me ..

How to express ?

20 years back if it was love letters or letters which expressed more of our dramatic feeling today the whole concept of expression have been taken over by status posts and tags the perfect way of expressing without actual feedbacks and knowledge ...
Right to express is everyone right
What to express and how to express is ones personal interest and after effects depends upon someone else perception ...It is your freedom to express ..feel free to express ..Peace is when we don't  experiment our expressions with someone's emotions ..

The section 66 A 

Being a democratic country there is no wonder of making a move as such  .As social sites have greatly influenced the culture and surrounding such an act and declaration has actually put on another right to  as like right to speech one more right is given a chance the right to post .You have the right to post anything you feel .This makes you equally responsible to be much more accurate and wise user of your right .As like speech is considered with non verbal expressions gestures and postures here the  non-verbal emoticons and words we use are considered as the means of expression .A little of awareness and alertness with conscious use of words are very much important to maintain the quality of your identity openness is finely accepted and valued .Because no one sees you in person doesn't mean that no one can ever see you  .Well but you are free here as it is all your space for  frank declarations .You are speaking like you are ,you are often disclosing your inner selves so as you do in real the concept of virtual is just an lay man concept of hiding till yesterday and as section has come in to action it consider you as real and virtual , you as you .The proximity between  real and virtual are lessened  as thoughts are   being more transparent and your concept of you will be evident with your posts and shares  and vice versa .  

  Let's be productive Techie citizens than just being an ordinary qwerty citizens let's say them it's not just smart phones and the new gen selfie we have ,we have much more than that to say and do  . 

The opportunity we are provided  is vivid   .Let us use this freedom to post wisely and judiciously 

SHARE LIKE CARING  AND SHARING 

PIC COURTESY : GOOGLE 

After Math - By Choice and By Chance

After Math - By Choice and By Chance

It has been seven years since me and Ryan have broke up with mutual understanding .Verbally and visually I have moved on.... yes I agree that somewhere I feel I had honest and earnest feeling , i was heart broken too ....! but what was it ?  that stopped us being so much like strangers something so sudden, it took  something big from me but it was affordable, bearable and yes so that I am surviving better even with this feeling which is definitely a need somewhere to understand myself , understand everyone around . The "road street cafe" When I saw those board letters after seven years unknowingly I smiled , without even a second thought somewhere my eyes filled with memories few good flashes a drop of tear which no one around could see, may be if someone  magnified they would have seen it  ..so Well...I had an after math  yes i do agree.. i have a broken heart  ..pretty hard to believe yet i believe, that is the prettiest  feeling that have ever happened to me ...:)
I too had a love story ...which made me smile  , which made me cry , which made me do things what I have never done and I may  never do..few things are that precious to hold on ..and wisely if i think  ,it happened so that i am bold than yesterday., May be I would  have given a second chance , May be I would have forgiven him , but somewhere I really wanted to be myself ..The biggest realisation is  that "Every human being is alone and independent ,.. unique ..".made both of us to be solitude free ..and still in love ....explore things for ourselves . let he grow as the memory of me fades ....A good choice has always a good chance ...and so on ...
Thanks to good love  for giving another chance to know me better and letting me know what I deserve ? .

Elle Susan( fiction )

For all who those have experienced love and yet to experience love...

India Today = Indian politics + Indian cricket

INDIA TODAY = Indian cricket + Indian politics ...
After reading the editor's column of morning news paper ... things started fuming my mind and as a result of my thoughts and current happening i ended up writing a rough sketch ...
India what i was always told to believe and what i believe ?
Yes we are rich in heritage and culture . agreed ... 
Diversities ..a lot many more have already taken the pages of history ..:) 
And I am a proud Indian 
What is India today ?
It's an simple equation 
My perception ...
India today = Indian cricket + Indian politics 
It's hard to find their in differences, but they are different
Good as good and bad as bad 
They are stuck somewhere but they achieve something 
The Sarkar and Democracy somewhere sinking with the security system...doesn't know  the idea called secularism is actually at progress ..or remains as a  thought  
The Bcci and cricketers sinks ,links and winks ..
I just watch game with its spirit whether you lose or win 
Our love for cricket is unshakable and inevitable...:)  .

Indian cricket 
Players work play hard bring medals and have stories to add in achievements ..still if they lose one game and then the captain have to quit or resign ..blames never end ..
...result no vacations.. only good players and winning games ..are given chances ..
Players have no right to speak yet another story of democracy ..and autocracy imbalance ..

Current track of Sarkar ..
They go for vacations ...catch the crowd... here comes appreciation all about speech and gestures to be  maintained ....phone in flight mode ... people who have to work is on air ....an engaged tone at an emergency situation is  truly annoying and disappointing .. ...if they are available then the mode changes to silent mode the diplomacy works without any thought ..
if this fly is to explore and security somewhere we are getting envious  .... .Definitely .after  or within 5 yrs there may be a better version of 2020 ...!!
 I still have few expectations on this rekindling relationships ... ...if my account receives 25 lakhs as promised  
We have true followers of Gandhi since ..last few years to lead us 'The India ' .
The quit India movement to quit voice movement
Well this is why India is developing and still developing .
MAY be ..I was one of that 3 million population to ignore the fact we could bring change If we need . ..!!

"The fear untold " A set of relationships !!

Our life is bundle of relationships These relationships are responsibilities
we believe
We find it guiding us
We feel like they make us secure Is it because
we never want to see what we have of our own?
Is it because we never wish to be lonely ?
Is loneliness a fear .....!!!
Are relationships a mere escape of this fear .. ???
If you are afraid of being lonely you can never step out from your comfort zone ..

Love Made Me Impossible To Confront ....A Fraction Of thought

Love Made Me Impossible To Confront....!!!

Love...!!!

 A lot many things to Explain, Explore, and yet to Know.

What is love?

Let me explain it on my own way

L – Let it stand for our own selves.

       Liberation

      Lust at last.

O – Obsession

      Outstanding

      Outgoing

Objections so near to possessiveness.

V – Vibrant.

      Vibes (spreading since in love)

      Vital

      Very Important Person.

Ahem, in short

    

E – Elegant.

      Ecstatic.

Electrify with one look leads to several, more looks ;)

complimenting every time each other and oneself 

I am beautiful ,

I am handsome ,

Yes true we are beautiful , smiles keep on smiling.
focused in loving each other ..:) :)

What is confrontation? 
Are you ready to confront ..?

To face

To make yourself better

Let me again say it on my own way.

C – Conditioning

Someone betrays you.

 Someone beats you

Someone hates you 

Someone makes you impulsive

Something messy and cheesy should happen to make it fresher.

“It “over here is nothing but you.

Yes that is how, we are actually conditioned.

Say you are bold if you have done with this.

O – Oh!   

Oh this is first time

Oh is fear

Oh is stress

Oh is nothing but only impossible.

Do you really believe in oh?  

Or still Oh I am confused

Time to re think and reboot if it is Oh!

Oh! Yes If you have  cleared the Oh to wow!

N – Nature

Nature seems to violating the laws.

Nature turns everything upside down

Nature of perfection with the list of don’ts only

If this is the way it is going.

Nature has chances of disaster

Let your nature be accepted, let it nurture not suture yourself.

Tap yourself if you have started believing yourself, the nature of you.

F – Force

Force to like

Force to love

Force to think

Force to act

Finally force leads to freedom.

Love happens without any force so why should you force for not being something you don’t want.

Cheers if there is no force....!

R – Running

Running away

Running out of everything

Still racing

Happiness is running towards J

Running to you and spreading the joy in you.

O -obey

Obey the laws which is not actually a law

Obey the arrogance

 If obeying has just killed your sanity .
and muted something ...!! it's Alas ....at work ...:(

Taboo may or may not make sense

Once disobeying it for the justice you believe.

Yes you are worth for a salute

 Applauds! You are being original.

N – Never give up

Never ever

Hereafter never might be disgusting

The lines and curves of never

The wear and roar for never

Never should never speak on your behalf

Well! If you have stepped out of never

Cheers and cheers then...for never giving up

T –The self

The hindrance to self

The tolerance

The ignorance

certainly patience 

The courage to face anything

That is you ...The self...

If the very self of you is every time making you better and better...Without any hindrance

Your love is possibly making you to confront...or else just say I am just in love...

Love is just to confront yourself with nothing but as you ....!!

  with regards 

Anna Aneeta Clement :)